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The art of approaching women is one of the most important things you can learn to upgrade your dating and sex life. It requires confidence, and the ability to be a smooth talker, to approach women, engage them in a friendly, interesting conversation, and get their phone number. If this is something that you’re not used to doing, then the process can be intimidating, and I know exactly how you feel.
But the bottom line is, you’ve got to learn how to approach women if you’re going to expand your social life and elevate your dating life. I know that most guys are intimidated by the thought of approaching women, especially in public places. . If this is how you feel, then you should change your ways so that you can start having the success that you desire.
What you ought to know is that your fear of rejection can be overcome, and it can be overcome simply and easily. If one of the reasons you’re scared of approaching women is the fact that things can go wrong, then guess what? That’s life, and things do go wrong! It doesn’t matter though. All that matters is that you harness the energy and power to walk up to a woman and introduce yourself.
Being More Confident When Approaching Women
Practicing in the mirror, and performing some mental exercises, is one way to build up your confidence with approaching women. Talking to yourself in the mirror will allow you to see how you look and to build up the confidence you need to approach someone. If you can first be comfortable with yourself, then you will more than likely be comfortable with talking with a woman too.
In reality, you’re never going to approach a woman and seduce her instantly with some magical pick up line. I don’t recommend trying this as this is the fastest way to get a drink thrown into your face. But when you do approach a woman, you need to have no fear of rejection. Not being intimated of rejection is a skill that you need to develop, and you can begin by walking up to women and asking them a simple question.
For instance, you should practice walking up to women and asking them a genuine question. Your question could be if they know what time it is or if they know where the nearest McDonalds is. This will help you to get into the habit of naturally approaching women so when the time comes to ask a woman for her phone number, it won’t be as hard to do.
Your chances of succeeding with women are going to increase dramatically if you can condition yourself to no longer fea rejection. When practicing what I suggested above, you should only practice walking up to beautiful women. Ask a woman where the nearest bank is or where the nearest grocery store is. You’d be amazed at the responses and some of these women will even start up conversations with you!
The time is now for you to start learning the secrets of how to approach women.
The Next Phase: Preparing Yourself To Pick Up Women
Before we talk about the specific of macking on women, let’s start at the beginning and talk about the importance of looking your best. Here are some quick words of wisdom to help you look and feel your best just in time for your next romp.
Work Out Regularly
Visiting the gym for an hour a day will take the edge off better than any kind of drink or drug you could foolishly ingest, and it’s good for you. Being a regular at the gym will result in you looking and feeling better, and consequently you’ll be more attractive to women.
Improve Your Wardrobe
When you take care of yourself and are meticulous about the clothes you wear, you signal to women that you’re a man of HIGH VALUE. Contrary to popular belief, women aren’t searching for a guy they can turn into their next “makeover project”. Wondering what type of clothes you should pick out for yourself? All you need to do is hit the department store at your local mall, and get advice from the cutest salesgirl. She’s there to help…and hey, striking up a conversation with a sexy salesgirl is never a bad idea..
Scrub & Wash
Your hygiene regimen should not just consist of dousing yourself in deodorant and cologne. When you shower, use body wash and scrub every part of your body. In fact, scrub every part TWICE. You could be hooking up later with a girl, and she’ll be a lot more sensitive to smells and funky odors than you are.
Location, Location, Location…
Wherever you decide to go for a night out, you should show up early enough so you can find some real estate. Depending on the venue (and how crowded it is), this could mean getting a seat at the bar, or a table near the dance floor. Having a place to sit (and host the gals you’ll be meeting this evening) is a very precious commodity in a crowded bar or club.
Between your attempts to capture the interest of the female with the massive fake breasts, or after a stinging rejection at the hands of that ice-cold, part-time model, this piece of property will always be safe, reliable and populated with familiar faces. The REAL players are all sitting down and looking comfortable and relaxed — not standing around watching everyone else have a good time.
Once you’ve staked your claim on that piece of real estate, get a feel for the place and the energy level tonight. Scout the rest of the venue; do a lap or two. As you do, carefully study all the signs — the body language and eye contact — that will help you determine who to pay a visit to as the night progresses.
I’ve always found that a moderate amount of booze can add an extra layer of confidence to my game, take your vocabulary to seemingly amazing new heights and put your comedic material on a level remiscient of famous joke-tellers such as Dane Cook and Patton Oswalt. But when you overdo the boozing, as in paying homage to the hard-partying days of Guns N’ Roses in their prime, will have a markedly different effect. Your inner turmoil will come gushing out like Niagara Falls and your amusing comments will be decreased to a drunken blather, so practice graceful inebriation.
Make The Effort
Regardless of whether your objective tonight is to score her phone number, a personal tour of her apartment or plunging into a serious relationship, it is going to require work. The other option is another evening by yourself on the couch in front of an infomercial. Now, get off your duff and start punching the clock.
If you see something you like, wait for an opportune moment — like her standing at the bar next to you or taking leave of her 18 friends for two valuable minutes — to seize it and tell her. This method is sink or swim, but at least you’ll know where you stand without wasting time trying to gauge the probability of her ending up on all fours.
When she is within earshot and can hear what you’re saying, you can make a comment about the environment…her cool necklace or tattoo…or some dorky-looking dude at the other end of the car who’s been checking her out. Whatever yoru comment is based on, just make sure she understands what you are referring to.
And while you work on boosting your game, stop telling the half-truths, deceptions and outright lies that are so prevalent in nightlife venue when guys try to mack on girls. There’s no need to lie about your vintage Ford Taurus or exaggerate the amount of zeros in your salary to increase the perceived size of your penis. Honesty might open more doors (and legs) than you think and also sends a subtle, yet discernible message that you are confident enough to not have to embellish.
Be A Man Of Mystery
Women are intrigued by a man with mystique. Convey this aura by not revealing too much of yourself at once. Don’t introduce yourself by name right away. Open her, use some of the conversational routines in the Mack Tactics e-book, and jack up her interest and curiosity before you tell her your name. Keep her guessing — if she asks you what you do for a living, blow it off with a joke. (“I’m a lion tamer.” “I’m an ass model.” “I’m a professional gigolo.” Etc.) Then direct the spotlight back to her by asking her a question. Likewise, you should spread out all personal information over time to keep her guessing.
Furthermore, you don’t want to spend the entire night with her. We tend to think of women in terms of conquests because they often play hard to get, but you can make yourself the conquest by periodically leaving her side, revisiting home base where your friends are stationed or even flirting with a rival woman. Being a challenge will leave her wanting more.
YOU Have To Make It Happen!
Willpower and persistence aren’t enough to compel a woman to fork over her phone number, or drop her panties. The bottom line is, it’s up to you to make things happen and lead her down the right path. Remember, you’re not going to a bra burning rally; you’re going to a club, where most of the women are expecting you to approach them — not the other way around. The above strategies only work in tandem with a measure of brazenness, so remember to check your timidity along with your coat.
You aren’t going to score with a hottie every time. Occasionally, even the best pickup artist winds up at a late-night diner wolfing down cheeseburgers with his buddies.Keeping your expectations in check, your skin thick and your sense of humor robust will help you get the most out of this game.
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Originally posted 2016-06-05 23:11:25.