Are Derek Rake’s “Deadly Seduction” Techniques A Scam?
Here’s a question I received from a lot of guys: “How can you tell whether a girl likes you or not?”
I’ve been friends with expert seducers for as long as I can remember, and they’ve given me varied answers to this same question.
Now, given that these guys are good with women, I took all their advice in and later wrote them down somewhere.
My good friend Derek Rake, the mastermind behind the “Deadly Seduction” system, gave an answer to that question that I will never forget.
Derek said to me, “Go for the kiss. You’ll know she likes you if she kisses you back.”
You can get the fail-proof first kiss technique, along with Derek’s other Deadly Seduction techniques, by clicking here:
Deadly Seduction – Attract & “Close” Girls FAST
You won’t know if it works for you unless you give the technique a try. Now the thing is, it’s not a bad advice at all. I was just clueless about the steps that lead UP to going for the first kiss (and getting it every time).
I used to watch Derek in action, macking on girls at bars. He does something before he goes for the kiss, which makes the woman actually want to kiss him more than he wants to kiss her.
He has figured out a way to “prep” girls for the kiss so that when he makes his move, it’s already in the bag. It’s this guy’s prep work that made the difference.
In the world of seduction, this is known as “conditioning” a girl and it’s one of the most powerful psychological tactics you can utilize to make a girl find you massively attractive.
You will of course need to know what to talk about with girls, but before that, here’s what you need to do first…
First, you must create a “frame” for her to enter. This sets the stage for you to build attraction. In order to do this, you’ll got to adjust your OWN frame and make it as strong as possible. I will show you exactly how this works.
“Conditioning” puts you in a position of power, and this goes for you as well as the girl you want to date. You won’t need to wonder about whether she likes you or not, because she’ll be following your lead and open to your suggestions. It will be obvious that she’s interested in you, and where this interaction is heading. Make her go with your flow, and not the other way around.
The first step in strengthening your frame is assuming that she likes you. Believe that she’s into you, and keep that frame regardless. If you act and talk like a guy who KNOWS a girl likes her, she will soon be entering that mode herself without her noticing.
Believe me, your vibe and even your body language totally changes when you make this shift in your thinking — from doubting that she’s into you, to really believing that she desires you sexually.
Think about it. When a girl chases YOU, you’re gonig to act differently. You are naturally going to be more relaxed (assuming that you find her attractive, too) and you’re going to NOTICE the things she does to impress you and try to attract you.
If this is your mindset when you talk to a woman, you will notice how she’s moving closer, slapping your hand playfully and laughing a little more than usual.
But you probably won’t notice these little details if you aren’t ASSUMING attraction on her part. Why? Because you’re distracted. You’re busy thinking about whether she likes you.
Have you heard how some guys can say “you’re hitting on me, aren’t you” to a girl with a tone so confident that they have the girl giggling?
The guys who can do this come off as cocky to someone else, but to the girls they talk to, they’re pretty funny.
That would be an example of a strong frame. I’m putting the girl exactly in the position where I want her. The frame I am creating is, “She obviously likes me and I can tell.”
If you don’t take control in this way, women are going to try to impose their frames on YOU — and when she knows she is in control of the interaction, she’s not going to have respect for you and won’t feel any attraction. It’s that simple.
Think of the times when a girl tried to put you down by saying “Oh yeah? Prove you like me, buy me a drink.”
That’s just one example of the “mind tricks” that girls play on us. This is especially true with hot chicks at bars and clubs, who know they have lots of options. She’s trying to make you feel that you aren’t good enough to date if you don’t get her something first.
This is a pitfall you absolutely must avoid…
When you go along with the wishes of a girl you just met, you’re stepping into her frame and losing control. As long as you stay stuck inside her frame, she stays in the power position.
This trick is powerful if you use it right. In fact, if you can do it naturally, you can change your seduction game from good enough to absolutely fail-proof.
The first time I saw this technique in action, I was awestruck. There are some guys who simply suck everyone around in their frame, making beta males out of every guy in the room, and attracting the best looking girls.
The amazing thing is that this is barely detectable. When the frame you create is rock-solid, girls will simply play the roles that you choose for them. You can “frame” a girl as a fun, open-minded party chick by telling her she has those qualities. Then, subconsciously she will want to live up to those qualities…and she’ll do things tonight with YOU that she wouldn’t normally do with a dude she just met.
It goes without saying that you have to be completely in it to keep your frame. You have to be more alert to think on your feet just in case someone is trying to diss you or try to bust what your frame is about.
The thing is, women will accept what you want if you’re persuasive enough, and go inside your reality if they like it there.
What makes this tactic extra special is that not many men know it, and this automatically gets you ahead in the game of dating and seducing women if you master this technique.
Imagine having an arsenal of such techniques in your backpocket…you’ll leave the “competition” in the dust.
The good news is that Derek Rake’s techniques are already available, which you can check out here:
This stuff is brutally effective, definitely controversial, and certainly not for “nice guys” who are afraid to get laid.
Give it a look:
Originally posted 2011-05-11 07:07:31.