Using Body Language To Seduce Hot Girls
Usually, a successful seduction begins with eye contact. Making eye contact with her, and smiling, is one of the surest ways to display confidence and establish a connection.
“The eyes are the window to the soul,” as the saying goes, and this form of contact can be as powerful as touch. Then, once the conversation is flowing, you’ve got to begin escalating in a physical sense.
Using Body Language Tactics
This means that while you’re talking to her, you are going to use flirty body language. Not in an aggressive way. In a very subtle, “invisible” way that she doesn’t consciously notice.
However, on a subconscious level, she’s registering your touch and she is beginning to feel physically comfortable with you. This is the key to using body language flirting effectively.
Look at this situation, which most of us have been through…
You go out on a date with a girl, and the two of you are having a good time. Everything seems to be going OK. But while you’re on the date, you’re wondering how this evening is going to end.
When you drop her off at her house..or when you walk her out to her car…are you going to attempt to kiss her? Of course, you WANT that first kiss, but you might be concerned that she will reject it…what if she’s not ready for a kiss yet? What if she thinks you’re moving “too fast?”
This is why in most cases, the date simply concludes with a friendly handshake, or hug, or a quick kiss on the cheek — and nothing more.
Or, picture this scenario. You bring a girl to a movie, and when you sit down with her you really want to put your arm around her and get closer to her…but you’re worried that it might make her feel uncomfortable. So you spend the next two hours NOT touching her at all, and wishing you were…
The way to solve these challenges is to lay a foundation of body contact.
When you use body language flirting the correct way, it’s a slow, natural progression — and remember, YOU are the one who has to lead the way.
She’ll feel “ready” to hold hands with her…give you the first kiss…and ultimately sleep with you…if you slowly ESCALATE and build body contact in a subtle way. Basically, you want her to feel comfortable with your touch. In a sense, you’re using body language flirting to “warm her up”…
So how do you accomplish this? Here are a few ways:
Flirting With Body Language – 3 Secrets
Body Language Flirting Tip #1: When you’re talking to her, when she says something funny, or something that you really agree with, give her a “high-five.” Don’t slap her hand (like you would do with your buddies). Put your hand up, she puts her hand up, and then you gently clasp her hand — intertwine your fingers with hers — and hold it for a couple of seconds before letting go.
On a conscious level, she doesn’t even really notice that you just made physical contact with her. But you did.
Likewise, when you want to emphasize something you are telling her, you can reach over and place your hand on her forearm, or on her hand, for a few seconds. This is just going to be a light touch. Then, slowly move your hand away.
Body Language Flirting Tip #2: Instead of touching her hand, if you’re sitting down with her you can touch her knee for a moment. While you do this, maintain eye contact with her. Again, she won’t be THINKING about the fact that you are touching her knee, but her brain is registering it…and she is feeling at ease with it.
Using Body Language With Girls Tip #3: Or, when you are holding the door open for her — guiding her into the passenger seat in your car, or through the door to the restaurant or bar — simply place your hand on the small of her back (gently) and subtly guide her through the door.
See, her brain is picking up the message that you are a MASCULINE presence who is there to look out for her. She knows that she is with a man — not a wussy “nervous guy” who is scared to make any physical contact with her.
You can increase the frequency and duration of your touches as the conversation continue to flow. Your flirting body language will grow more intimate and powerful.
It won’t feel unnatural for you to reach over and gently brush the hair away from her eyes, and put it behind her ear…
In the same sense, it won’t feel weird if you learn in close and whisper a “private joke” into her ear. (This can really give a girl goose bumps — in a great way!)
This is all laying the groundwork for you to kiss her. After I’ve done all the steps above, I like to give her a soft kiss on the cheek after I’ve just said something in her ear.
After I do this, I withdraw my touch and return to whatever we were talking about. The “kiss” is no big deal. It feels like part of a natural, comfortable progression.
Essentially, this is how you use body language flirting to attract women. Ultimately, you’re going to make her feel comfortable being with you in every sense…but only if you lay this foundation.
Now, while this flirtatious body contact is occurring, the other important tactic is to use “Strategic Conversation” to drive up her interest and attraction…
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Originally posted 2015-09-23 11:15:56.