Opposites attract…

Opposites attract…
attract women
Image by Ed Yourdon
Note: this photo was published in an undated (Apr 2010) HeartsForU blog, with the same title as the caption that I used on this Flickr page.


Waiting for iPhone 3g – Jul 18, 2008 – 096

Silly me: after the iPhone 3g had been out for a full week, I thought I could stroll right into the Apple Store on Fifth Avenue & 59th Street in mid-town Manhattan, and simply buy one without any muss, fuss, bother, or delay.

But when I arrived at 11 AM, I found a line of approximately 150 people waiting outside in the broiling sun, not seeming to move forward at all; it turned out that the Apple store "concierge" folks were letting them in in groups of ten, when the previous ten had been taken care of. When I asked the woman how long she had been waiting, she said, "Four hours" — she had arrived at 7 AM, having already determined that the AT&T stores were sold out throughout New Jersey and Connecticut.

Well, I’m a gadget freak and a Mac fan, but there’s a limit to my passion for such things; four hours was just too much. So instead, I decided to take a bunch of pictures of the people who were in the line. Of course, I have no idea whethere the people queued up in front of Apple stores in other cities (or at other stores here in NYC) are similar to this group … but I’m inclined to think that they are. And if that’s true, then the demographics of this group — in terms of age, gender, nationality, ethnic groups, etc. — is particularly intriguing. I saw only one guy dressed in a corporate uniform of suit and tie; Apple may be trying to break into the "enterprise" market, but that’s not who was standing in line for all those hours in the sun…

Attracting women is the holy grail of dating.  If you can’t attract a woman it’s 100% certain that you’ll never date a woman.  Attracting a woman really isn’t that hard.  The hard part is dealing with your own worry as you take the risk of putting yourself out there.  There are a few basic things you need to know how to attract women.  Let’s begin with your friends.

If you’re like most guys, you have friends that seem to be naturally great at attracting women, no matter where they are.  The next time you’re out with them, stop and watch what they’re doing.  How are they acting?  What are they saying?  What’s their body language like?  Take notes, if you need to.  If you want to know how to attract women, watch the guys that do it all the time.

I don’t know your friends, but, I bet I can tell you three things that they’re doing that you aren’t, and that’s making all the difference.  
1.    They’re flirting from the beginning, you’re not.


2.    They’re relaxed and having fun, you’re nervous.
3.    They’re being themselves and having a good time, while you’re sweating bullets to even talk with a woman.

Knowing how to attract women is more how you see yourself than how a woman sees you.  Your friends know this.  That’s why they attract women naturally and easily.  

The number one thing you need to do to know how to attract women is to stop worrying about how you come across.  To get a woman to notice you, have confidence in yourself first.  Relax and learn to have fun with approaching women.  Have some confidence in yourself.  That attitude is killer when it comes to attracting women.

They say that practice makes all the difference between a great athlete and a good one.  The same thing is true for approaching women and knowing how to attract women.  Try out some of the techniques that you saw your friends use to approach and talk with women.  Don’t worry about whether or not they work, just relax and try them.  Have fun at it.  If it doesn’t work on this one, just consider this to be a dry run for practice.  Move on to the next one.  You’ll find that you’ll improve with each experience until you’re doing this so naturally and easily that you almost stop thinking about it.

There are literally hundreds of techniques you can use to know how to attract women.  But it’s not the techniques that make a woman attracted to you.  It’s your own attitude, your own level of fun and relaxation.  

If you would like to watch a FREE VIDEO of me approaching attractive women in the real world, starting interesting conversations, creating attraction and getting phone numbers and dates, then watch the free video here now: http://www.SucceedAtDating.com.

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Originally posted 2011-07-29 10:22:03.

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