“Damn if being sexy was a crime, you’d be guilty as charged!”
We’ve all heard this line and others like it. When you first hear them they actually come off as funny, but then you get this afterthought and think “who thought of this lame line.?” I feel sorry for the men who use these lines and honestly expect to pick up women. It’s not their fault for using these terrible techniques since they haven’t been properly taught how to properly seduce a perfect 10. I’d say about 90% of men don’t have a clue where to even start.
In my experience with helping out guys, they have it all wrong when using pick up lines. Just because you can use your generic pick up line and start a conversation doesn’t mean you’ll get a date. Think of a pick up line as a start to a conversation. I hate to break it to you but the 3 best pick up lines are hi, hey, and hello.
Its not the mere words that count its your body language and presentation that do. That’s why women respond to flirting. See you have to demonstrate sexuality and physical attraction without saying anything. The key is you have to show off an attractive personality in order to catch a women’s attention and attraction.
The goal you’re trying to get is rapport. It’s the genuine interest two people have for each other and you’ll know it when you have it. The way you get is to flirt and make the women feel that tingly feeling inside. Here are 5 tips to help you in your efforts:
Tip #1 Flirt Early and Often
When I tell you to flirt I don’t mean compliment her every 5 minutes. Let her compliment you then you know there is sexual tension. The awkward tension isn’t bad it could just mean she is attracted to you, but she’s unsure of how you feel towards her. This will only heighten her attraction for you.
It’s important you start creating rapport the minute you meet her. You only get a small window before it’s too late. Remember, I didn’t say flirt right away that makes you creepy. She’ll let you know when it’s time to flirt. When you get the wheels in motion start to joke around and subtly tease her.
Tip #2 Hopefully You Have a Sense of Humor
I know not everybody can be a comedian, but everyone has a certain level of humor. Do your best to mix arrogance with humor. It sounds like a disaster but the idea here is to elevate your status from her perspective. You will see that this will make her work harder for your approval and she’ll be laughing at the same time. Hopefully, you find the right balance and not overdo the arrogance. If you do it right it can be an excellent recipe for sexual tension.
Tip#3 Add a Hint of Innuendo in the Conversation
This will be a bit uncomfortable for both of you, but you need to showcase yourself in a sexual light. If you avoid these topics this girl will think of you as a platonic friend or even worse, a brother. At first do it lightly, if you come on too strong you will be called a pig. The best way to approach this topic is to do it in an indirect manner, even this will drive her romance meter up.
#4 Don’t be Afraid to Touch
There will be a point where you will need to touch her properly and in public. Examples are touching her hand or shoulder lightly. Even though you think it’s insignificant she will notice in the most important way.
#5 Try to be Outgoing
When you talk in a coffee shop take her on an adventure with your stories, dreams, and hopes. Women love it when you have passion in the things you do. Tell her the trip you took with your friends or how you want to travel to every country one of these days.
Incorporate these 5 tips into your efforts and you’ll be amazed at how easy it works. To get more information about pick up lines for women go to www.perfect10pickup.com.