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How To Pick Up Beautiful Asian Girls
Hey, this is your wingman Dean C., the guy who literally “wrote the book” on how to pick up girls. I’d like to share a few more fast ideas to help you with meeting beautiful Asian women. (Because the truth is, dating Asian girls requires specific tactics that you wouldn’t use with non-Asian women…)
OK, let’s get started. This first hint on dating Asian girls may possibly sound a little self evident, but it’s particularly necessary for you to display cleanliness and good personal hygiene when you’re hanging out with Asian girls. They are big on this! They seriously believe in the phrase “cleanliness is next to Godliness.”
If you hang around a lot of Asian girls, it’s clear how much they value hygiene and maintaining a presentable appearance. Asian women typically won’t leave their house without first fixing their hair and makeup, and if they’re just going to run a quick errand. (Western women, on the other hand, will often just put on a baseball cap and a baggy sweatshirt.)
The bottom line is, when you are going out to meet Asian women or spend time with the girl you like, you need to make extra sure that you look clean, fresh and presentable. With Asian women, it’s better for you to be a bit overdressed; you never want to be underdressed.
If you’re going out on a date with an Asian girl, this is definitely true. Always assume that she is going to arrive looking her very best. It’s going to be awkward and uncomfortable for her if she walks in wearing a classy cocktail dress, and you’re wearing ripped jeans and a tee-shirt. With these ladies, you must “dress to impress.”
Extra Suggestion: If you’ve got facial hair, I suggest you get rid of it. Women (and not just Asian girls) nearly always agree that men look best when they are clean-shaven. This is especially true with Asian women because the men of their culture almost never have facial hair, and their skin is very soft and sensitive. They don’t want to rub up against stubble. So if a beard, moustache or goattee has been part of your “look” for a while, go ahead and shave it off. Make a fresh start. Trust me, it’s going to feel good.
My next tip is that you’ve got to let Asian girls know that you’re an organized person who has his life totally under control. Asian women do not understand the idea of being a “slacker,” or trying to “find your purpose” in life. In Asian cultures, the men work hard and have a clear sense of purpose. They are also self-sufficient. Anything else is considered abnormal and unattractive. So if you are sharing an apartment with a slob roommate, or you hate your job and are trying to figure out what you really want to do in life, these are things you’ll need to conceal from Asian women (and hopefully you will address these problems and get them fixed soon).
This does not mean that you need to make tons of money, or have some impressive high-powered career. It simply means that you must be able to show women that you’re organized. If you live in an apartment, you should keep it clean. (If possible, hire a maid to come in once a week and make the place spotless.)
You should not be saddled with a lot of debt. And when you’re hanging out with Asian women, you should mention your plans for the future and ambitions. She will then imagine herself as part of your future.
Western women will often feel attracted to guys who are slackers or “bad boys.” It’s possible for a guy to have no direction in life, but still pull Western women because he turns them on sexually. Asian women don’t fall for this. These types of men totally turn them off. They require a man to be stable and secure, because that’s the only way THEY will feel secure. Beautiful Asian girls are turned off by this type of guy. They want a man who is STABLE and can make them feel secure.
By projecting calmness, masculine confidence, and a sense that you are in command of your present and future, you will become highly attractive to Asian women. This is an excellent starting point. In my next article I’m will talk about some more specific tactics and methods for dating Asian women, including tips for randomly approaching girls and starting cool conversations. I’ll even give you some powerful tips to help you meet attractive Asian girls on the Internet (and how to blow away all the other guys who are competing for the hottest girls).
How To Attract Beautiful Asian Girls: Bonus Tips
Hot Asian women can seem like a mystery to Western fellas who haven’t tried dating them before. Their ways, and their attitude towards dating and relationships, are quite distinct from European girls or girls from other parts of the world. And then there is a rich sense of cultural heritage that many Asian girls have, which further differentiates them from all other women. Personally, I think Asian women can be some of the most exquisite of all Asian women, and I’ve dated quite a few — so I have some unique insights into picking up hot Asian women which I think you’ll find useful.
The first thing to keep in mind is that beautiful Asian girls are used to guys taking them out on “traditional” dates and trying to impress them by spending a bunch of cash, and trying to talk about their own positive qualities in an attempt to impress her. The truth is, she has heard all this before in numerous variations and versions. Keep in mind the saying “less is more.”. The less you go out of your way to impress her, the more a girl (especially an Asian girl) will be impressed. The key to this conversation is to ask thoughtful questions and get her to talk about herself. Downplay the amount of interest you show her. This throws her off guard as you are different and challenging, and hot Asian girls like you challenging.
You should not try to “date” a hot Asian girl in the normal Western way. That means, don’t try the traditional dating moves: spending money taking her to dinner and a movie, getting a goodnight kiss (at most), and then no more calls from her.
Essentially, this is what she’s used to from guys, and these types of first dates carry with them a lot of awkwardness and expectations. These is what every one else has been doing with her. Instead, you should set up a first date that is simpler, cheaper and less predictable. Meet up with her for drinks, or a cup of coffee. Don’t frame it as a big, important “date” — make it seem more like a casual get-together. The atmosphere is less charged, more relaxed and thus more fun without the usual dating expectations.
All the other guys attempt to get these beautiful Asian girls out on a date and impress them with a detailed “rap” or speech moves. In actual fact, she has heard it all before in many variations and versions. In this case less is more. The less you try to impress her, the more the Asian girl is impressed. Instead of talking about yourself, ask thoughtful questions and be an attentive listener. All you need is a faint degree of interest. This makes you seem very different from all of the other guys who have taken her on dates and tried to win her approval. Be a bit naughty. Throw in unexpected and mischievous remarks to leave her wondering if you just said that. Don’t ever give her the sense that you’re blown away by her looks. Playful and flirty statements and actions leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are. Being a little bit of a “bad boy” can go a considerable ways with beautiful Asian ladies.
Hot Asian girls get a lot of admirers and so you have to be different to leave an impression. Most of them would want to give you little test to see how firm you are. Do not just give in to every one of her whims. Sometimes you can playfully yet firmly resist or refuse her.
Believe it or not, an Asian girl would rate you more if she discovers you are admired by other Asian girls. This is why you shouldn’t focus all of your time and attention on one Asian girl. Widen out and let them know you are trying to decide and have a lot of admirers. You will surprised with the results.
The next thing to understand is that most Asian women are family bound. If you meet an Asian girls you would likely notice that family bounds are more respected within them. Becoming friendly with some of her family members is one of the fastest ways to gain a beautiful Asian girl’s trust and appreciation. Have an interest in her family, make a positive impression on all of them, and it will unquestionably boost the possibility of your success.
In Asian societies, honesty is also a quality that is considered highly important. A man of honor takes his responsibilities seriously. Prove yourself as a man of honor and strong character — but with a mischevious and playful “bad boy” edge — and you’ll be irresistible to beautiful Asian girls.
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Originally posted 2004-06-22 08:32:11.