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Secrets Of Dating Asian Women – How To Flirt With A Hot Asian Girl
If you want to start dating Asian women, then I totally understand. I’ve been dating Asian women for many years, in America and during my frequent overseas travels, and I’ve come up with a specific set of rules and strategies that you ought to learn if your goal is to get a hot Asian girlfriend (or enjoy dating a variety of hot Asian girls!)
Be aware, there are some differences in how you should go about flirting with Western girls, versus Asian women. When it comes to American and European women, my usual style is to be a brash, playful “bad boy” — I’ll taunt women and playfully critique them, to let them know I’m really not “impressed” — no matter how beautiful they might look. My normal strategy is to make girls feel that I am the one who need to be impressed.
This means never answering her questions directly (rather than giving a direct answer, play it off with a joke); don’t ask HER the average queries (“so what’s your name,” “where are you from,” etc), and using CREATIVE conversation instead; and it also means teasing women and “busting on them” from time to time. Not in a cruel, rude way, but in a lighthearted way that says something very significant to her: that you’re not an ordinary guy who is hoping to impress her and “win” her.|One way to do this is to never answer a woman’s questions directly. Instead, you always deflect her questions with jokes (i.e. “What do I do for a living? I’m a lion tamer.”)
And, you don’t ask her typical questions (such as “where are you from,” etc.) You With Western women, it’s important for you to take command of the conversation and steer it down the right path, and this means turning the tables and playfully teasing on them. This shows that you’re certainly not just like every other guy, who acts nervous and needy.
So the question is, should you try to approach dating Asian women the same way, and take the same approach? The answer is, in some cases you will use a similar style of flirting. But there are some modifications you will need to make to your “game.”
A specialized approach is required to successfully pick up most Asian women, and much of this has to do with their culture and the way they were raised. When they were growing up, there’s no doubt they watched a ton of “romantic serials” on television. (In America, we refer to these shows as “soap operas.”) In these shows, the handsome lead actor is always treating his woman like gold, being super “sweet” and “caring” and tending to her needs.
Often, the storylineinvolves a guy trying to win over the girl, but she keeps rebuffing him — and so he keeps itrying until he does something extraordinary to “touch her heart.” Then she gives in and melts, and they live happily ever after.
This stuff may sound corny to you, but Asian women are raised to believe in it. And so, they expect men to “court” them.
Sure, there are less-traditional Asian girls who go for “bad boys.” Normally, however, well-raised Asian girls would rather die than bring any shame on their families, so they would never be seen in public with a guy who wears shabby clothes and is covered with tattoos (no matter how “cool” other women might think he is).
This also means that you can’t approach her like a “pickup artist” would, using lines and routines on her and trying to quickly escalate to a physical level.
The rules of sexual chemistry change a bit when you’re dating asian women.
I do recommend paying an Asian woman a compliment on her dress, or how nice she looks. I don’t advise guys to do this with Western women, because it makes you predictable and unoriginal. Asian women, however, because they are so wonderfully feminine and take pride in how they look at all times, will be genuinely appreciative of a sincere compliment.
(Although she may act shy, and blush when you tell her, this just means that you’ve touched her emotionally.)
It’s also really important for you to exhibit masculine behavior (i.e. “be the man”) when you are with Asian girls. Asian women want to be around a masculine presence, because they are so utterly feminine. It’s one of the things we all appreciate most about Asian women: they are totally feminine in nature and appearance. This is not the case with a lot of American women these days. Not only do they want to “wear the pants” in the relationship, they’ll also adopt a masculine style of dress — such as wearing baggy sweatpants and baseball caps. You simply will never see an Asian woman dressing this way, even if she’s just going to the store.
I can explain to you exactly how to project a masculine “energy” that Asian women are magnetically attracted to. Just visit our Dating Asian Women site and learn these tips, plus much more, and within no time you can be attracting and dating the beautiful Asian women of your dreams.
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Originally posted 2004-07-10 23:47:05.