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Having trouble picking up women? Have no fear! All you need to do is follow a few simple methods to help you get the woman of your dreams!
Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?
Most of your friends probably don’t know how to pick up women. Your dad probably doesn’t know (and lord knows your mom couldn’t tell you)! Even the dating “experts” that you see in the media wouldn’t be able to give you the proper tactics on how to pick up women, because if they did – they’d never be able to appear on TV again! (Let’s face it, the mainstream media is extremely feminist and looks down upon anything that could help guys get laid!).
Understand: Learning how to pick up women is not a politically-correct topic!
If you want to get started right away, you’re going to need some practical advice that really works! Luckily, you’ve stumbled upon this article! So let’s get to it…
First of all, let’s cover what you DON’T need to pick up women.
You DON’T need to look like a “male model.”
This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually care more about how a man can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.
So if you’re insecure about your looks, don’t sweat it! There’s still hope.
Also, you DON’T have to drive a snazzy car, or blow a lot of cash!
Some of the best pick up artists I’ve ever met never spend more than when on a date, and many of them didn’t even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn’t a very nice one!)
You’ll find that women can be very forgiving when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?
Lastly, you DON’T need big muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you can think of.
Look – No matter what obstacle you think you have when it comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great personality trumps them all!
Interacting with women the right way is the only thing that matters.
You may not be able to have phenomenal success with these tactics right away if you’re just starting out. But if you take the time to start applying these tactics and actually learn from your experiences, you’ll find your success with women will dramatically improve.
Go out as often as you’re able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you’re starting out. You don’t need to go to high-pressure venues like clubs where it’s extremely hard to pick up women, but there is no better “practice ground” in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.
No matter what – if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women. The more you do it, the better you’ll get!
You may not have a whole lot of success when you first begin – but you’ll notice a change as your confidence with women begins to build. Every victory or defeat you experience will help teach you what you need to improve upon to successfully pick up women, and just as importantly, what you SHOULDN’T do!
Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.
All you’re doing when you go out to pick up women is gaining experience!
You’re going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.
(Remember I didn’t say you had to be “good looking.” I said you need to “look good.” There’s a difference here. You may not have any say about what you look like, but you have complete control over your appearance – what you wear, how your hair looks, how you smell, etc.)
Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that’s color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a wardrobe (particularly if they’re women), now’s the time to recruit them.
It’s true that you don’t need fancy threads to meet girls, but why not make it easier by wearing nice clothes, why wouldn’t you do it? Besides, looking good will also make you feel more confident!
Be on the lookout for opportunities to do pickup. You can find attractive women just about anywhere. And if you notice that she’s given you the eye, it would almost be a sin not to start talking to her!
Finally, its important to remember that a good pick up follows an easy-to-use structure. This means there’s steps you can follow to get a specific result EVERY TIME you go out to meet women.
The structure is:
Find the girl.
Walk up and meet her.
Talk and Gain Rapport.
That’s it! Four simple steps. You’ll find that if you’re able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.
Check out Joseph Matthew’s homepage and download his free guide on Meeting Women. In it, you will discover everything you need to know about How To Meet Women Online For Free and other proven methods for getting the girl of your dreams.
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Originally posted 2011-07-15 10:17:48.