how do i get my ex girlfriend back? please to all of those people who know alot about relationships pleasehelp?

okay me and my ex were together for about 2 months then suddenly she wnted to break up. i asked her why but she wouldn’t tell me. after our break up we were still talking but i as time progreesed i kept on texting her with love quotes and crap and i said that i still love her then she said it started to get annoying then she wouldnt reply to me anymore then after that inncident she wouldnt talk to me anymore and everytime i try to talk to her she would give me the cold shoulder or say that iam very annoying. and now she is texting wth another guy! a dumbass who repeated school! i NEED to win her heart back but i honestly dont know what to do anymore im beginning to lose hope.

btw she told me that i can never get her back anymore but i dont believe it for a second. Im still gonna get her back no matter what it takes!

I really want my ex girlfriend back?

My girlfriend of 2 years just broke up with me because she said she was very unhappy and does not want to have the stress of a relationship. She said she needed time but I asked her to tell me, do you need time or do you just want to end things. She said im sorry but i think its the best for both of us to go our separate ways.

I am so devastated and depressed I cant sleep at night or go one day without feeling sick and lost. I am not contacting her at all because people say give her space. How much space do I give her because I do not want her to think I forgot about her
She is always making depressing quotes on her twitter saying ” i am really hoping i did the right thing…..”
People are telling me she will come back others say she wont. I love this girl will all of my heart and our 2 year anniversary is on the 23rd of this month. Should i sent her flowers and a hand written letter to tell her i still care about her?
I am still trying to move on just incase I do not get to be with her again. But i always treated this girl like she was gold and constantly told her how beautiful she is. And she constantly told me she was not happy with her self image. She is 16 years old and i am 18.

How to Get My Ex-Girlfriend Back?

I have known my ex for around 4 years, we have dated off and on 4 times and each time we get back together it lasts for around 3 months. I know for a fact that there is nothing wrong with me, she has told me many times that it is not me it’s her and she can’t make up her mind. I’ve always known that she has had deep feelings for me the problem I’m facing with her now is, she is falling for a man 18 years older then her. This “man” and the I quote man because he has beatin and raped her, he has also enabled her with cocaine, which she has been in recovery for. I know that some people will say that if she has a drug problem then she is a lost cause, but I’m sorry I will not give up on her! I can’t seem to understand why she has choosen this guy over me, I have treated her with the respect and love she deserves, I have listened and even cried with her when she spoke about her misfortunes in life. I feel that she has been seeing this guy because of the fact that he can enable her with drugs and he has a place she can be away from athoritie. She is not a bad girl, she has just been taken in the wrong direction by selfish “man”. If only there was a way I could make her see the situation she is in. I have to mention that she is bipolar and is taking medication, she drinks and it causes her medication not to work. I will also mention that she is 18 years old and the “man” she is seeing is 36, I am 19. Please, I will not give up on us, I can see a bright future together and I need an answer, I would like some help from you. Can you please come up for a solution towards this? Should I contact her and tell her how I feel, or will that only push her futher away? Should I keep away and hope she makes the right decision to come back? Whatever you think would be best, I’m up for almost anything.
we were in highschool together, I would call her my highschool sweatheart.
she has cheated on me before and I have forgiven her.
she has put a restraining order on this “man” for assault
her mother and father have both been unable to care for her from a young age.
she has been in youth homes most of her life.

How Do I get my ex girlfriend back?

Without getting too in depth. I’m in my early 30′s she is in her late 20′s. We where setup mutual through people we know. Relationship last just shy of 3 months time. It sounds weird but after 3 weeks of being with her I knew she was the one I wanted to marry, and in turn she seemed to feel the same about me.

10 weeks go by and things are great. Then a snag hits with schedule issues with jobs etc and time is scares to say the least to see one another. Kind of out of nowhere she tells me she needs space and is feeling like she doesn’t have this connection she once had to me..She breaks it off with me she says she isn’t sure this is the right thing to do but she needs to take these chances with life etc. I hear all the I’m an amazing guy I’m wonderful and great. Again I ask for reasons why this strong connection for one another just ends suddenly and I can’t get a straight answer just kind of waffles around it and repeats herself. So I’m a complete mess emotionally and I try to get her back twice once by being honest and the other way sort of reverse psychology, neither worked I got the same response and she has quote moved on with things in less than two weeks? sounded like a defensive thing and I don’t think she possibly has. I haven’t spoken to her since and not having closure or knowing why is killing me inside. I do not think she cheated on me in anyway its not like her. I can tell you I think she has anxiety alittle and has trouble making choices about things on her own. I don’t know if it became too much for her and she couldn’t handle it but when I tried to talk about issues or adversity she didn’t want to deal with it all. She was burned badly in the past but that was almost 8 years ago but I understand being protective regardless. The other thing is I think she has had bad prior relationships it seemed like the guys world revolved around her and with me I’m not co dependant on her every move and I tended to do everything right I was loving caring and did so without thought because that’s who I am, not some a**hole So here I am at a point where I’m trying to forget and I can’t I feel awful I can’t sleep very well I don’t eat much and I think about her constantly and what I lost and I blame myself for not telling her I love her till I think its too late. So what do I from here? I pray to god to help give me strength to survive onward or I pray to bring her back to me. I have talked to friends about this and I get a mixed bag, They understand the whole left without the answer thing and the others tell me she has issues she needs to work out on her own and maybe she’ll realize what she had and come back.

I’m at a point do I forget her completely and just move on or hold onto hope she comes back? Is there anyway at this point we can salvage what we had for us. I ask because I need her very much in my life and I can’t bare losing someone this way. Any advice, ideas, please help I can’t take this.

I just can’t buy her faking how she felt and has moved on so quickly…Like I said I think its anxiety and not knowing what to do or how to handle it so she ran from it rather than talk about it…But is is salvageable?
Please not smart ass remarks I am asking for serious answers here

Getting Back To Ex-Girlfriend?

Ok so we’ve been together for ~5 months and my girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend) thought I was really ‘annoying’ and so broke up with me. Well, I could still remember her telling her close friend since February 16 (+ 8 GMT), which was around 2 months into the relationship that she was getting bored / tired of me. Along the way, her friend revealed to me that she was attracted to me back in December 2010 solely because of my looks. I was also told that my (ex-)girlfriend thought I was “annoying” most likely due to the fact that I haven’t been amusing her very much. Now I really want to get her back…

Telling you more about her….she was born in California to Chinese parents and grew up in Shenzhen. She’s currently 16 and has got a huge crush on Jay Chou and had dated 2 boys prior (with the first one being the one she used to like really much ‘cuz she thought he was charming). Here is a short but informative extract coming from her friend: She’s the ‘typical’ kind of teenage girl who loves the Harry Potter and Twilight series….and she’s the type who gives up easily when met with challenges, really low self reliance and confidence, loves putting the blame onto others, hides her emotions and has the disease to please

Now here are 2 problems:-
1. How are girls amused and how do guys usually go about doing that? I know you would probably say that the trick is to be “myself”, but what does it really mean? Do you have any real life examples that I can follow? Is there a general rule for this? I’m good with adult humor but I don’t think that is appropriate….

2. Some people tell me to have no strategy at all and contrive no tactics (e.g. getting her jealous or stuff like that) while letting it cool down for sometime (they say to wait for 3 months) before establishing contact again. They conclude that all she wants to see in me is that I am still strong and happy even without her and my “Dumb Guy Disease” isn’t the terminal variety. On the other hand, some people advise me to get into a better shape (being a lil’ buffer, tanner and taller), aplologize to her and tell her that I will change and finally try to get her jealous by flirting with other girls. I don’t know how reliable the both of these are but can anyone in a similar situation as me who has managed to pull himself out of this please give me some advice?

Oh, by the way, just to quote from someone giving an explanation of “Dumb Guy Disease”: ‘Behavior and lack of character of men kill of the hope in women. In other words, it is anything a guy does with complete and utter cluelessness – as opposed to complete and utter meanness — that offends a woman’s sensibilities and world view’ ——> Don’t really understand?? Can you also put this in simpler terms, please? Thanks very much.

Sensible teenage males and females are welcomed here.
Well…..some sources also say that blatantly ignoring her and dating a string of women to get your ex-girlfriend jealous is reverse psychology “at its worst”…really don’t know what to do…

Ex girlfriend wants me back but i dont?

so about 2 years ago i went out with this girl for like 2 months, and we haven’t said a word to each other except the rare “hi” in the halls at school. right now i’m dating this girl that i love hand have been for a little less than a year now. so today i get some a random text from her and she says we should hang out. so i said sure but ill have to ask my current girlfriend, but she didn’t know i was still dating her. so i said we were still dating and she says “thats disappointing”. so we caught up for a bit and she keeps asking if were going to chill, and i keep saying maybe ill have to ask my current girlfriend, and the last text i get after saying i’m going to bed is “goodnight! hopefully see you soon cus i miss you! ” <- and i quote that. this girl and my girlfriend don’t like each other and before my current girlfriend absolutely hated her. so what i’m asking is what to do in this situation. like i would like to be friends, but i don’t want to ruin the relationship that i’m in now. i wouldn’t mind turning her down and saying that im already dating another girl. what do i do??

Ex girlfriend wants me back for the right reasons? What is she thinking?

I have to set the stage of what’s going on and how it came to be so bear with me. So I had a crush on her for years since the moment I met her I thought I didn’t have a chance with her she was a cheerleader and I wasn’t really anyone but the quiet guy (unless you knew me) so I just became friends with her a year or so goes by and I dated other girls tried to move on but it just didn’t happen so one day I decided to tell her that I was in love with her for the longest time and come to find out she had felt the same way about me after I had gone on and dated girls it made her jealous I guess so we were together for about 6 months and we parted ways I don’t know really what happened but it took me some time to get over her, it took another girl to do that (I wasn’t really but I thought I was) we have kept in touch since and are still very good friends. Just over a year since we broke up has passed. I and several friends all went up to her house and hung out ever since that night we have texted and talked every chance we got and hung out. Well the other night we all went out for a night on the town had a fun time she lives up the road from me so we rode together it came time to take her home so we drove around for a while and talked one on one. I knew what she was doing she had been very close to me the whole night and I wasn’t the only one who noticed. I was driving and we were getting close to her house and she looks at me and says kiss me, I want to feel what it’s like again I miss you …so I did several times and it was great I remembered what I was missing all along and all these feelings came back but they were never gone. She said she always wanted me in her life and missed being with me. When I asked her why she decided she wanted me back in her life this way she said “because your settled and I kind of wanted something settling in my life right now everything is very thrown up in the air” I asked her if what happened between us earlier that night was physical or emotional she said (in a nut shell not an exact quote) she said emotional mostly because she didn’t want to stop it’s a different feeling when its emotional. She said that she wanted to kiss me or have some sort of physical contact when she saw me in her living room a week or so ago when we started talking and texting a lot. So as of now we’re in sort of a relationship not committed or at least not super committed I’m a little confused myself about whether or not this is genuine and we haven’t discussed exactly what we’re doing. I hope I gave enough details just tell me your thoughts.