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Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed – How To Pick Up Women
by Joseph Matthews
Feeling clueless when it comes to picking up women? These
handy tips will help get you started on the path of success
to getting the women of your dreams!
Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have
no clue where to start?
Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from
their friends and family who know even LESS about how to get
a girl than they do. Even so-called “Dating experts” that
you see on TV usually don’t know what they’re talking about
because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And
truth be told, the mainstream media looks down on any tactic
that could help guys get laid!)
Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically-correct
If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you’re going
to have to follow some practical advice that works right
away. Lucky for you, I’m about to share some with you right
Let me first tell you what you DON’T need to pick up women.
You DON’T need to be “male model” good looking.
This is the biggest mistake men make. You have to realize
that close to 85% of women care more about how a man makes
them FEEL, rather than how he actually LOOKS.
So if you don’t think you’re a very attractive guy, don’t
worry! There’s still hope for you.
Second, you DON’T have to spend a lot of money or drive an
Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I’ve ever known spend
or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of
them doesn’t even own a car! (And the ones that do don’t
drive anything special!)
Most women don’t care how much money you make or spend on
them – IF they actually like you! And a big part of picking
up women is to get them to like you, isn’t that right?
Third, you DON’T need to be a certain ethnicity or
nationality, have big muscles, be famous, or any other thing
you can think of.
Look – No matter what obstacle you think you have when it
comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great
personality trumps them all!
If you know the proper way to interact with women, nothing
Unless you’re already on the verge of becoming a master pick
up artist, you’re probably not going to have phenomenal
success right away using these tips and tactics. But if you
apply these and other tactics over a period of time and
learn from your experiences, you’ll find your success with
women will skyrocket!
You’ll want to try and go out as often as you can to talk to
women – especially when you’re first starting out. You may
be intimidated to go to “high pressure” environments like
bars or clubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but
they are great practice grounds for you to hone your skills.
But regardless, make a point of going out to pick up women a
certain number of times a week – after all, practice makes
When you’re first starting, you might not have a whole lot
of success with the ladies. But over time, as your
experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success
and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make
you better at picking up women.
Remember: The more experience you have, the easier it’ll
All you’re doing when you go out to pick up women is gaining
You’re going to want to try and look as good as you can when
you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.
(Remember I didn’t say you had to be “good looking.” I said
you need to “look good.” There’s a difference here. You
may not have any say about what you look like, but you have
complete control over your appearance – what you wear, how
your hair looks, how you smell, etc.)
Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that’s
color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have
fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a
wardrobe (particularly if they’re women), now’s the time to
It’s true that you don’t need fancy threads to meet girls,
but why not make it easier by wearing nice clothes, why
wouldn’t you do it? Besides, looking good will also make you
feel more confident!
Be on the lookout for opportunities to do pickup. You can
find attractive women just about anywhere. And if you notice
that she’s given you the eye, it would almost be a sin not
to start talking to her!
Finally, every good pick-up follows a structure. Its a
series of steps you can actually REPEAT time and time again
and get similar results.
This structure is as follows:
Find a woman.
Talk and Gain Rapport.
These four simple steps is all you need! You’ll find that
if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport
with them, you’ll easily be able to build attraction with
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Article from articlesbase.com
Originally posted 2011-07-17 18:28:42.