There are various factors that can spell the failure of a pick up line or a pick up artist. Most pick up artist are not successful on their first start. They encountered many hurdles before mastering the art of picking up women.
There is a ton of information out there available for Pick up artists. It is very cushy for you to get caught up trying to read every single article out there. The information available is good and you can learn a ton from the written experience of other PUAs.
2. Avoid snubbing your sticking points
As you progress in the various phases of being a Pick up artist, you will find that there are some areas that are more ambitious for you to overcome. Confronting to address the areas that you have the most difficulties is counterproductive and only serves to slow your progress down.
3. Avoid questioning skills.
During the early stages of acquiring PUA skill you might find yourself in situations where you doubt what you are doing would work, believe me there are some pretty counter intuitive methods.
Trust the system, don’t knock it until you try it. Remember, whatever you were doing until now wasn’t really giving you the results that you wanted.
4. Avoid using your frustrated, often-dump friends as wing men.
In most cases when you are starting out your friends will not understand what you are doing, some of the methods in Pick up women are the exact opposite of the things that you and your friends would normally do. You need a couple of guys around you that understand PUA and the method you are using.
5. Avoid Drinking!
Most, if not all, of the top PUAs in the world do not drink. Booze or Liquid courage gives you a false sense of confidence. Getting drunk also seriously erodes your mental faculties.
Knowing the things that you should avoid is very important. This will lessen your worries on what pick up lines you should say to her, you can resort to romantic pick up lines or cute pick up lines:
- A boy gives a girl 12 roses. 11 fake, 1 real and he says to her ” I will stop loving you when all the roses die”
- If you stood in front of a mirror and held up 11 roses, you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.
- I just wanted to show this rose how incredibly beautiful you are!
- The only thing your eyes haven’t told me is your name.
- I think there’s something wrong with my eyes because I can’t take them off you.
- If you were a tear drop, I would never cry for the fear of losing you.
- I know somebody who likes you but if I weren’t so shy, I’d tell you who.
- I lost my teddy bear, will you sleep with me?
- I think you just stole something. [What’s That?] My heart.
- Excuse me, if I go straight this way, will I be able to reach your heart?
- Are you lost ma’am? Because heaven is a long way from here.
- I must be in heaven because I’m looking at an angel!
- Did it hurt when you fell? [Huh?] When you fell from heaven?
It’s a waste of time, once the attraction is not there it is very difficult to get it back. I’m not saying that it is impossible, just saying that the amount of energy and time you are going to spend “fixing” that situation could have been used to get more numbers and dates. You should be utterly sensitive on the pick up lines that you use, this will determine your success or failur.
Originally posted 2012-02-27 07:29:22.