True Story: How To Pick Up Girls At Bars
by Dean “The Machine” Cortez
Are you curious to know how to pick up girls you like without getting rejected? For the inexperienced, this can be a daunting feat but when you understand the basics, it becomes easier soon thereafter. These tactics I am sharing with you were created in response to how women behave, think and react to situations.
How To Pick Up Girls At A Bar
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #1: Convey Social Value
Contrary to popular belief, you don’t directly approach a girl you like and introduce yourself just like that. Let her notice your personality, charisma and social clout first so you can build massive amounts of attraction. To put it simply, you have to display traits that attract women. You can do this by simply making sure that you group is enjoying your presence; talking to bartenders and waitresses you know; saying hi and striking a conversation with friends and random people alike.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #2: Don’t Let Your Attraction Be Obvious
Women are not attracted to men who shower them with too much attention and attraction. Here’s a question for you, why do players get to sleep with the hot girls in the bar? I’m not saying that you have to a jerk. Just let her know that hey maybe you can chat but if she’s not feeling it, you have no problem with it. If you’ve conveyed your social value well, she would know that if she refuses to talk to you, you won’t be affected at all. There are a lot of other girls who would be more than willing to give you their attention. So in this game, you make yourself the prize.
One way of doing this is by stating beforehand that you’re not going to take too much of her time. Here’s a good example:
“Hey, I see that you’re having fun with your friends but I’m not staying long. I saw you a while ago and I just thought you look stunning in that dress. I just thought I’d drop by and tell you that”.
She will smile and thank you for the compliment, do as you said and leave afterwhich.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #3: Understanding Neutral and Flirt Openers
From the name itself you can tell that neutral openers are the opposite of flirt openers. With neutral openers, you have to make an observation about the girl and make statements or questions related to what you’ve observed.
Neutral openers give you the chance to show the girl that you don’t only appreciate her but you are also interested in what she has to say about certain things. The goal is to say something that interests her and make her talk to you. Women love it when guys see them as someone of value rather than someon they can sleep with. If your intention is to actually sleep with her, just don’t make it too obvious. Or else, she’ll just reject you just like that. Sounds like a long ritual but these steps make it easier for you to make women up to you.
Further, if you want to use flirt openers, make sure you’re sure of your game. Flirt openers also work if you’re 100% sure that she’s into you. When you already know how to use flirt openers with ease and success, it’s safe to say that you’re already a rockstar when it comes to macking.
Here is an example. The other night my buddy Hunter and I hit a nightclub in Miami. The joint was jam-packed with hot chicks. There were clearly lots of model-type girls, strippers, and I even spotted a porn star I recognized…
I’m talking about the type of super-hot girls that blow guys off all night long. Guys will literally line up to try to buy these chicks drinks. (They NEVER have to pay for their own drinks when they go out. I know hot chicks who don’t even bother to bring money when they go out clubbing!)
Hunter and I know, these types of girls require a slightly different set of tactics…
Instead of acting like a typical guy who is eager to please, BUST ON THEM a little bit, and let them know you’re NOT an average, ordinary guy who is in awe of their looks and eager to impress them.
Anyway, my friend Hunter struck up a conversation with this twenty one-year-old 22 23 amazing pair of fake tits. (He used one of my favorite openers to start the conversation. You’ll find it on Page 54 of the Mack Tactics book.)
So the girl gave a funny response, and Hunter smiled, looked her up and down, and said…
“You’re so cute. It’s it’s a pity you’re not my type.”
Hunter didn’t explain what he meant by that. He changed the topic and started telling her about his recent snowboarding trip…
Right then, the look on that girl’s face was PRICELESS.
She’s thinking, “WHAT did he just say? I’m not his type?? But I’m EVERY guy’s type!!”
So on the one hand, she was a little bit pissed off and confused…
But on the other hand, you could see that she was even MORE curious about Jay after he said that!
It was amazing how quickly her whole demeanor changed. I could tell from her body language that NOW she was trying to get him attracted. She was batting her eyelashes at him, playing with her hair, sticking her tits out…giving off all the little “signals” that girls do, subconsciously, when they’re trying to attract a man.
Hunter, however, has studied the Mack Tactics program and he knows NOT to give the girl what she wants right away. What she wanted was validation. He wanted her to SHOW her that he was interested in her, too. But instead, he said “I have to go say hello to some friends. Stay right here, I’ll be back in a minute.” And then he turned his back and walked away, leaving her standing there…
He went over to some cute girl he knew, and gave her a big hug and chatted with her for a few minutes…while the other girl watched, and surely felt pangs of JEALOUSY…and then Hunter returned to her to resume the conversation. Obviously, the whole time the girl was thinking, “What’s up with this guy? How come he’s SO confident?” (Beautiful women rarely meet men who truly exude confidence…) He is SO freakin’ sure of himself…is he rich? Does he have a fourteen-inch dick? How come he doesn’t kiss my ass like every other guy??”
She felt insecure, confused, and VERY CURIOUS to know more about him 🙂
This is when my friend Hunter “switched gears” and took the interaction to the next step. He used one of the awesome “Cold Read” techniques that you’ll find on Page 61 of the Mack Tactics book. He smiled at her and said…
“Y’know, Meredith, I can tell that because you look a certain way, guys make assumptions about you. I bet most guys never take the time to really know you, and understand what you’re about. But you’re actually more sensitive, and a lot deeper, than even some of your friends realize…”
So, he pays her this little compliment, which also makes him seem like a thoughtful, perceptive guy. And the really cool thing about these “Cold Reads” is that it gets the girl to open up, and feel comfortable with you, and start sharing on a deeper level. She’ll tell you things about herself that she would normally never tell some dude she just met a few minutes ago…
Those other guys would just be standing there, trying not to stare at her tits, asking the same old boring questions (“So where are you from?” “Have you been here before?” Etc…)
So anyway, Hunter brought her home that night, and it was a great example of how to use Mack Tactics to “close the deal” with a girl.
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Originally posted 2016-02-15 18:54:55.