Understand How to Approach a Girl You Like
Do you want to learn some tricks on how to approach a girl you like without freezing? For men who do not have a lot of experience when it comes to women, things can be a tad difficult but once you understand everything it becomes easier thereafter. These techniques I’m about to discuss with you were formulated based on how girls behave and think.
Techniques on How to Approach a Girl You Like
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #1: Convey Social Value
If you want to secure your chance of talking to a girl, make sure you do this first step. You must first create massive amounts of attraction and the only way to do this is for you to display your personality, charisma and social skills in general. In short, you have to show women characteristics of men that they find attractive. One way of doing this is by making sure your friends are enjoying your company; talking to bartenders and waitresses you know; make an effort to talk to people you know in the room.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #2: Don’t Sound and Appear Too Interested
If you show her that you’re downright interested from the get go, you lose the game. Here’s a question for you, why do players get to sleep with the hot girls in the bar? Don’t be a jerk, I didn’t say that. Just give her an impression that you want to chat with her but if she’s not digging it, you’re cool with it. If you’ve conveyed your social value well, she would know that if she refuses to talk to you, you won’t be affected at all. She has seen how you are with people and how everyone enjoys your company. So in this game, you make yourself the prize.
One way of doing this is by stating beforehand that you’re not going to take too much of her time. Here’s a great example:
“Hey, I see you guys are having fun but this is not going to take long. I saw you a few minutes ago and I think you look gorgeous. So I thought I’d say Hi”.
She will smile or thank you, just do what you promised and leave afterwhich.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #3: The Neutral and Flirt Openers
To understand neutral openers just think of it as the opposite of flirt openers. Neutral openers require you to observe the girl you like and create questions, comments or compliments based on the result of your observation.
It tells the girl that you not only appreciate her but you’re also willing to listen to what she has to say. The objective is for you to open up a conversation focused on her interests and make her talk. Women love it when guys see them as someone of value rather than someon they can sleep with. If your intention is to actually sleep with her, just don’t make it too obvious. Otherwise, you’ll be rejected right off the bat. Call it ritual if you want but women warm up to these tactics and these are your tickets to her bed or her heart, for the romantics.
On the other hand, flirt openers must be used once you’re sure of your game. Flirt openers also work if you’re 100% sure that she’s into you. If you think that you can use flirt openers with ease and success, it may mean that you’re already a rockstar when it comes to seduction and macking.
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Originally posted 2011-07-25 10:08:21.